In Memory of Kendall LeeAnn Bayne, 1996 – 2015


“Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.”

UVA coach London recalls his friendship with Kendall Bayne and her family

By Doug Doughty, The Roanoke Times

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Mike London’s introduction to Kendall Bayne was so random that it’s a wonder they had a relationship at all.

Four years later, London, the football coach at Virginia, postponed all of his morning and afternoon appointments Monday to travel to Roanoke for a celebration of Kendall’s life.

Kendall in UVA jerseyIt was London’s hope that his presence would not create a stir. And it didn’t, even when he was escorted to a first-row seat that had his name on a placard.

The only mention of his name came when Jere Bayne, Kendall’s father, delivered a tribute to his beloved 19-year-old daughter and raised his head to acknowledge London.

“She was your biggest fan,” Jere Bayne said.

“That’s when I lost it,” London said later Monday after returning to Charlottesville. “To think of the effect I might have had on somebody I never coached, it was a life-changing moment.”

Kendall died Thursday after a five-year battle with adrenal cortical carcinoma. She was 19.

Like Kendall, one of London’s daughter’s, Ticynn, graduated from high school in 2014. When Ticynn was 4, she became ill with a disease that required a bone marrow transplant, followed by radiation and chemotherapy.

“My daughter’s situation turned out where she’s still here,” said London, who was a bone marrow match for his daughter. “To watch two parents and a family bury their daughter, I can only imagine how that must feel. Jere and [mother] Andrea are awesome people.”

London had never heard of Kendall or her plight until the UVa staff was asked in 2011 to sign a football that would be put up for auction at a fundraiser.

When it came time for London to sign, the instructions had become lost in translation and London included an inspirational message. That wasn’t the original purpose, so the first football was sent to Kendall and a second was prepared for the auction.

That could have been the end of the connection, but it was only the beginning.

London and the Baynes spoke by phone or communicated via text for the next four years.

“When we beat Florida State in 2011, I called her and Jere after the game,” said London, whose 14-13 victory that night in Tallahassee, Florida, ranks among the most satisfying of his coaching career.

“It must have been 12:30 in the morning, and I called her and said, ‘Did you see it? Did you see that? ‘And we were just yelling and screaming back and forth on the phone. That’s one of the memories that were made that night.”

In 2013, London invited Kendall to serve as an honorary coach for the Cavaliers’ home game with Duke, and she and her father had a sideline view of the action.

A signed UVa jersey that she received on the trip was placed in her casket with other keepsakes before it was closed.

After graduation from Cave Spring High School in 2014, Kendall enrolled at Virginia Western Community College because it offered the chance to be around family and friends while undergoing treatment.

As late as the fall of 2014, she had spoken with London about the possibility of transferring to Virginia, a process made difficult because her cancer fight prohibited her from completing the required credit hours.

“I told her just to let me know and I would do what I could to make it happen,” London said.

The Baynes would congratulate London after a win and console him after a loss.

“She’d send me a text message, ‘Hey, hang in there; thinking about you,’ ” London said. “Jere would do the same thing. I thought about Kendall all the time and how it puts things in perspective. With all the pain and everything she was going through, she was always so positive.”

In his phone, London has a photograph of Kendall in a UVa football jersey from the time she was his honorary coach.

“I hope to continue my relationship with Jere and the family,” said London, who was invited to join the Baynes before Monday’s service. “I know there are some initiatives they are thinking about.”

Like many in a crowd of 500 or more at Church of the Holy Spirit in Roanoke County, London was overwhelmed by a video tribute to Kendall that was accompanied by the OneRepublic song, “I Lived.”

“The pictures that were flashing, the places that she’d been … she was sitting on a cliff [at McAfee Knob] and in the background her feet were dangling,” London said, “and I was like, ‘Oh, my, wait, that’s not safe.’

“Golly, that probably was one of the toughest things that I ever witnessed. I just feel blessed to be a part of whatever part I’m a part of. I’ll never forget this day.”

Mike London reflects on friendship with his biggest fan

by Andrea Adelson, ESPN Staff Writer

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Virginia coach Mike London didn’t fully understand the impact his friendship had on cancer-stricken 19-year-old Kendall Bayne, but he was moved deeply when he found out.

One of the last tweets Kendall Bayne ever sent is dated Sept. 28. In it, she writes: Absolutely love getting words of encouragement from my favorite coach.

Mike London sent her the text the way he has sent her countless texts over the last four years. The two first got to know each other in 2011, when London autographed a football for her.

Bayne was suffering through cancer. Virginia was her favorite team. London could not help but keep in touch, not because he is a football coach, but because he is a father whose own daughter fought and survived cancer as a child. He needed to show support.

They corresponded through calls and texts, London sending her inspirational messages along the way. She served as an honorary coach in a home game against Duke in 2013 and stood on the sideline, wearing a UVA jersey London autographed for her.

There was hope and prayer that Kendall would be OK. But in early October, her father texted London. Kendall, he said, was struggling. London was crushed.

Then, last Saturday morning, her father sent another text. Kendall had passed. She was 19.

London had to go coach a game against Georgia Tech hours later. But that morning, after the text arrived, London resolved he would attend the funeral. “I felt compelled,” he said in a recent phone interview. “I had to go.”

He wiped his slate clean and took off for Roanoke, Virginia, on Monday, a two hour drive from Charlottesville. His plan was to sit quietly in the back of the church. But the family wanted him somewhere else. London was escorted to the front of the church, where a seat was reserved for him in the first row, in front of the casket. He was floored.

The service began. It was beautiful, London said, one speaker after another praising Kendall for her spirit and determination. She always had a smile for everyone. Then her father got up.

“He looks over at me and says, ‘Coach London, she’s your biggest fan. We appreciate you,'” London said. “I lose it because it’s like you can’t hold emotion like that. Tears are streaming down. My daughter Ticynn is a sophomore at ODU. We went thru the same thing. So mine gets to live, and then this flower passes?”

London paused.

“It’s affected me profoundly because it was through words, it was through gestures that I developed a friendship with this young lady and I never knew the power of what that did for her. This is a tough profession. I’m at peace with who I am and what I am. I’m a football coach. That’s what I do for my job. But I’m a father, husband, all those other things and if it works out that we get these wins and do this, OK fine.

“But there’s just more to life. Who decides who comes, who goes, who stays, who leaves? Look at a young lady that lost her battle. I look at my daughter making dean’s list and having opportunities. It’s all so awe inspiring to me. Having been in Kendall’s life and not knowing what type of influence I had, I can’t wrap my mind around it. To be shown such favor in a situation like that, I feel really honored and blessed to have that opportunity.”

When London got back to the office on Monday evening, he gathered his coaches around and put the game against Miami on Saturday into perspective. He told his coaches if your children have activities, whether a game or a recital, go see them. Don’t miss those moments because you just don’t know how many you have.

“I believed it before,” London says. “But I believe it now more than anything.”